A Lesson in Respect
Do you remember the days when "personal space" was a given, not a luxury? I certainly do. Once, during the height of the Covid pandemic, when we all were navigating through the maze of new norms and 2-metre distances, I had an experience that stayed with me. I was shopping, carefully considering an item on the shelf, when a young woman breezed in. Without a second thought, she reached right past me, invading that invisible bubble we all carry around. Fast forward to this week, and it was a lady in her 80s, showing the same disregard for personal space while I was selecting items.
This got me thinking: Is respect for others' space and dignity fading across generations? It's easy to pin this down as a generational issue, but what if it's more than that? What if it's a reflection of a deeper societal shift where self-importance overshadows respect?
Jesus taught us about respect and love for others in the simplest yet most profound ways. In Matthew 7:12, He said, "So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you." This 'Golden Rule' isn't just a guideline; it's a way of life. It's about seeing the person next to you in the supermarket aisle, not as a stranger encroaching on your space, but as a fellow human being, deserving of consideration and kindness.
We live in a world that often prioritises 'me' over 'we.' It's easy to get caught up in our own needs and forget the impact of our actions on others. But, as followers of Jesus' teachings, we are called to be different. To be the light in a world where self-importance often dims the brightness of community and compassion.
Remember the story of the Good Samaritan (Luke 10:25-37)? A man beaten and left for dead, ignored by those you'd expect to help, is cared for by a stranger. This parable isn't just about helping those in need; it's a powerful message about respecting the dignity and worth of every person we encounter. It's a call to be aware of the space we share and to treat it with the reverence it deserves.
Imagine if that young woman at the supermarket had paused, acknowledged my presence, and said a simple "excuse me." Or if the elderly lady had waited a moment, respecting the shared space. Small gestures, yes, but profound in their ability to change the texture of our daily interactions.
In a world that often feels cramped, both physically and metaphorically, where do we find room for respect? It starts within each of us. As we go about our day, let's challenge ourselves to be more conscious of the space we share with others. Let's choose patience over haste, understanding over frustration.
We might argue that today's fast-paced world doesn't always allow for these moments of consideration. But isn't that the point? In the rush of life, finding moments to show respect and kindness is like a breath of fresh air. It's what sets us apart and brings us closer to living a life that truly reflects the teachings of Jesus.
So, next time you're out shopping or simply walking down the street, remember that each person you pass has their own story, struggles, and need for respect. Let's not assume self-importance or disrespect is a generational trait. It's a human challenge, and we all are part of the solution.
As Jesus showed us through his life, respect is not about grand gestures; it's found in the everyday moments, the small acts of kindness, and the recognition of our shared humanity. Let's hold onto that, especially in crowded places, where respect can sometimes feel lost in the shuffle. After all, isn't that what following Jesus is all about? Building a world where love, respect, and compassion aren't just ideals, but realities we live and breathe every day.
